Dearest Tom and Adrienne, (aka Brother-in-law and Sister to me), this is one of the hardest note that I've ever had to share. Sister, when you called me on that fateful night, the tone of your voice spoke volumes. I knew. I just knew. I don't want to know. I have to know. Don't tell me. Tell me! I tried to brace myself however, my emergency "mental crash helmet" failed me. I tried to be strong but the "rain" kept kicking me in the eyes. Somehow, the script got flipped as you consoled me rather than me consoling you. So now, please accept my sincere love, prayers and sympathy in regards to D's/Bum's (these are the names I used to call him) transition. He, Ray Palmer and I have been adopted siblings for nearly 40 years. D and Ray were the "big dogs" as they called me " the puppy." Nearly everyone love puppies, right? So, that is how the three of us "rolled." There are so many memories that I have reflected on as I will forever cherish and hold dear. I know that I must accept the Lord's will however, the human side of me just wouldn't let up. Believe me, I tried. His transition is still too fresh right now but I know that I must let him rest. Sister and brother-in-law, I am really trying hard to stop "the rain" from kicking me in the eyes when we speak. I really am. However, nearly 40 years ........ I know that D is now free from his earthly concerns and that all is well with him. This is how I am coming to terms with his transition. Yes, this is hard for me and others however, with the Lord's grace, it will be done. As for you, "Bum," I know that when we meet in Heaven, there is no doubt you will say, "Lord, the puppy up here acting up." The next thing you will say is, "What are you doing, you Rascal." And lastly, "Ray, we got to go and get the puppy because she up here raising sand about something." Memories! Well, D, my brother, you will always live in our hearts forever. The Holy Bible reminds us that when we are absent from the natural, we are present with the Lord. I am sure that Mama Gertrude, Grand Ma Willie, Vernita, Carl and the rest of this beloved family was there to greet you. May the Lord always keep you close in Heaven and may you always sleep in Heavenly peace. Goodnight, D!